Are you interested in becoming a swinger? Curious?
The swingers lifestyle is not for everyone, here is some info to help you to make a decision.
Towards the late end of the 20th century, swinging has massively gained popularity across all age groups. The media takes special interest in the subject and it is common place to find articles in lifestyle magazines covering stories about couples who’ve tried the swingers lifestyle.
They enjoy regular swinging sessions with other like-minded couples, singles and groups while remaining committed to a marriage or relationship. Swinging can be a successful and enhancing part of your relationship. Especially the sexual side.
What is swinging?
Swinging is sexual activity of physical intimacy treated much like any other social activity that can be experienced as a couple. While sex within a relationship is usually intimate, romantic, and a unique experience that connects two people, swinging is more recreational.
Swingers indulge in intimate acts with someone other than their spouse/primary partner, with the full knowledge and consent of that person.
Just because the concept has gained popularity in recent decades doesn’t mean swinging is an entirely new idea. Swingers have been thriving since the beginning of recorded time!
In the era of flower power, swinging was a very “in-thing” and among the most popular “culture.”
Swinging is like a sport for people who believe physical attraction is part of human nature and should be openly enjoyed by a committed or married couple.
Typically, swinging activities occur when a married or otherwise committed couple engages in carnal activities with another couple, multiple couples, or a single individual.
The most common method is an adult male and female couple, meeting other pairs for lovemaking and physical intimacy, and sometimes ongoing intimate relationships. This may occur at a swing party, a couple-to-couple encounter, a liaison, or with a third person in a threesome.
What is swinging like?
For couples that are interested in swapping partners or having sex with people who are not their partners, there are different ways you can approach it.
1. Swap with another willing couple
Maybe you have a couple that you are close to, and all four of you are interested in swapping partners. Or you can go on a dating app and find a willing couple that way. But in this instance, it would only be four willing people engaging in swinging.
2. Go to a swingers party
You can also join a swinging community. Many people will host swinging parties that you can attend. The dynamics of it vary from one-on-one sex to group sex and orgies. It just depends on the people involved.
3. Go to a swinging club
In most major cities, there are also swinging clubs that you can go to. Many of them have private rooms and group rooms where you can explore different types of kink.
Usually, they have entrance fees, but they usually say that they are low-pressure.
How can swinging help your relationship?
Swingers say that lovemaking is more intimate because they are with a partner who encourages their fantasies. Both partners are so confident in themselves and in the relationship that jealousy is not an issue. Swingers also vouch that swinging makes infidelity less likely, as they know they can have physical contact with others with their partner’s consent.
After all, the couple defines cheating. As long as the couple has a definition and stays within their boundaries, no cheating would occur.
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